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	<title>Comments on: Fat Faith?</title>
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		<title>By: Ruth</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2009/06/28/fat-faith/#comment-106766</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 00:26:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Interesting post.  I know that this site is generally liberal-leaning, but I am hoping, and it seems to be the case, that there is no animosity against conservative Christians.  I consider myself a conservative Christian feminist (and I&#039;m fat, too).  As for me, I know God cares less about our physical appearances and more about our relationship with him and our spiritual health.  In my beliefs (if I actually have to qualify my statements that way), Christ came to set us free from bondage to sin.  So if there is an issue, whether the person is addicted to dieting, anorexic, and trying to live up to society&#039;s standards, or feels like she has no control over her eating habits, I would say that is something Jesus is interested in...in freeing our minds and souls.  Ultimately, this life is short, and Jesus wants us to get our priorities in order and work more on our character and relationship with God and other people (things of eternal value) and let go of the things that have only limited temporal significance (such as weight, wealth, and so on).  Does that make any sense at all with regard to how my faith ties into FA?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting post.  I know that this site is generally liberal-leaning, but I am hoping, and it seems to be the case, that there is no animosity against conservative Christians.  I consider myself a conservative Christian feminist (and I&#8217;m fat, too).  As for me, I know God cares less about our physical appearances and more about our relationship with him and our spiritual health.  In my beliefs (if I actually have to qualify my statements that way), Christ came to set us free from bondage to sin.  So if there is an issue, whether the person is addicted to dieting, anorexic, and trying to live up to society&#8217;s standards, or feels like she has no control over her eating habits, I would say that is something Jesus is interested in&#8230;in freeing our minds and souls.  Ultimately, this life is short, and Jesus wants us to get our priorities in order and work more on our character and relationship with God and other people (things of eternal value) and let go of the things that have only limited temporal significance (such as weight, wealth, and so on).  Does that make any sense at all with regard to how my faith ties into FA?</p>
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		<title>By: Lady Lately</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2009/06/28/fat-faith/#comment-105198</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 06:24:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I cried. Or at least kept tearing up and couldn&#039;t stop.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I cried. Or at least kept tearing up and couldn&#8217;t stop.</p>
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		<title>By: Sara Star</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2009/06/28/fat-faith/#comment-101635</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2009 18:41:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am blessed that in my religion--there are many popular images of deity that look like me and my friends.  There are shapely goddesses, thin goddesses, strong goddesses and pear shaped goddesses and apple shaped goddesses and hourglass shaped goddesses.  There are sexy goddesses and chaste goddesses of all varieties.  Young ones and old ones and middle aged ones.  When other pagans say to one another thou art goddess, it truly fits, it is conceivable.  I have noticed that among my pagan friends, there is a healthier body consciousness.  We rarely rip on our own bodies, and the body is shared and appreciated by others.  I can&#039;t call us perfect, there are always women who still feel bad about themselves.  But for most of us, health and wellbeing is more important that weight and shape.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am blessed that in my religion&#8211;there are many popular images of deity that look like me and my friends.  There are shapely goddesses, thin goddesses, strong goddesses and pear shaped goddesses and apple shaped goddesses and hourglass shaped goddesses.  There are sexy goddesses and chaste goddesses of all varieties.  Young ones and old ones and middle aged ones.  When other pagans say to one another thou art goddess, it truly fits, it is conceivable.  I have noticed that among my pagan friends, there is a healthier body consciousness.  We rarely rip on our own bodies, and the body is shared and appreciated by others.  I can&#8217;t call us perfect, there are always women who still feel bad about themselves.  But for most of us, health and wellbeing is more important that weight and shape.</p>
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		<title>By: pyewacketsid</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2009/06/28/fat-faith/#comment-101530</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 03:16:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I haven&#039;t read a single other comment, but that wedding story made me bawl in the best possible way.  &lt;3]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I haven&#8217;t read a single other comment, but that wedding story made me bawl in the best possible way.  &lt;3</p>
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		<title>By: shiloh</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2009/06/28/fat-faith/#comment-101472</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 18:38:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;b&gt;Richelle&lt;/b&gt;, on July 2nd, 2009 at 5:43 am Said: 
&lt;i&gt;A Sarah, I find it very striking that, per Luke (and maybe also John), one of the first things Jesus does upon appearing to the disciples after the resurrection is to request food and eat it.&lt;/i&gt;

I think in a sense he feeds them first (Luke 24:30 and John 21:10&amp;13).  I&#039;ve always thought it a pity that most Christians practice communion as a ritual rather than as a feast, since in the Bible it really does seem to be a meal, a feast, the whole &quot;cup runneth over&quot; kind of thing.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Richelle</b>, on July 2nd, 2009 at 5:43 am Said:<br />
<i>A Sarah, I find it very striking that, per Luke (and maybe also John), one of the first things Jesus does upon appearing to the disciples after the resurrection is to request food and eat it.</i></p>
<p>I think in a sense he feeds them first (Luke 24:30 and John 21:10&amp;13).  I&#8217;ve always thought it a pity that most Christians practice communion as a ritual rather than as a feast, since in the Bible it really does seem to be a meal, a feast, the whole &#8220;cup runneth over&#8221; kind of thing.</p>
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		<title>By: shiloh</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2009/06/28/fat-faith/#comment-101470</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 18:20:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;b&gt;Arwen&lt;/b&gt;, on July 2nd, 2009 at 3:17 am Said: 
&lt;i&gt;Being of a bit of a scientific bent, I decided to check out how many people had experience of other/greater, and to my great surprise there were 1) Fewer than I had expected in the religious population, given my own background and 2) More than I had expected in the atheist population.&lt;/i&gt;

One of the reasons I thought of the autisitic parallel to athiesm is that a lot of religious belief seems more a form of socialization than a reaction to personal experience.   I agree with someone upthread when they said that one characteristic of Shapelings with significance both for accepting SA and for their own personal religious beliefs seems to be a willingness to question and a reluctance to just accept the status quo.  

In contrast, in the U.S. most people stick with the religious beliefs they were raised in, except for those who say their parents had no religious affiliation - two thirds of the religious stay with the faith they were raised in, while 60% of people raised without religion become religious as adults.  Which intrigues me but I have no idea what it means.

My personal experience with the &quot;Presence&quot; is way closer to wicca than Christianity; my preference for Christianity is more of an intellectual than experiential thing.  I find the Christian prophecies compelling (I realize most people don&#039;t, but I think symbolically in the same way so they make a lot of sense to me), although I totally disagree with the whole &quot;Left Behind&quot; scenario (it ignores the parallels between Revelation and OT prophecy we&#039;ve seen fulfilled and how they were fulfilled).

So while I do think spiritual experiences are common and help to explain why all cultures have a spiritual sense, they often don&#039;t seem to have direct impact on the people who experience them.  It&#039;s kind of weird when you think about it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Arwen</b>, on July 2nd, 2009 at 3:17 am Said:<br />
<i>Being of a bit of a scientific bent, I decided to check out how many people had experience of other/greater, and to my great surprise there were 1) Fewer than I had expected in the religious population, given my own background and 2) More than I had expected in the atheist population.</i></p>
<p>One of the reasons I thought of the autisitic parallel to athiesm is that a lot of religious belief seems more a form of socialization than a reaction to personal experience.   I agree with someone upthread when they said that one characteristic of Shapelings with significance both for accepting SA and for their own personal religious beliefs seems to be a willingness to question and a reluctance to just accept the status quo.  </p>
<p>In contrast, in the U.S. most people stick with the religious beliefs they were raised in, except for those who say their parents had no religious affiliation &#8211; two thirds of the religious stay with the faith they were raised in, while 60% of people raised without religion become religious as adults.  Which intrigues me but I have no idea what it means.</p>
<p>My personal experience with the &#8220;Presence&#8221; is way closer to wicca than Christianity; my preference for Christianity is more of an intellectual than experiential thing.  I find the Christian prophecies compelling (I realize most people don&#8217;t, but I think symbolically in the same way so they make a lot of sense to me), although I totally disagree with the whole &#8220;Left Behind&#8221; scenario (it ignores the parallels between Revelation and OT prophecy we&#8217;ve seen fulfilled and how they were fulfilled).</p>
<p>So while I do think spiritual experiences are common and help to explain why all cultures have a spiritual sense, they often don&#8217;t seem to have direct impact on the people who experience them.  It&#8217;s kind of weird when you think about it.</p>
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		<title>By: Richelle</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2009/06/28/fat-faith/#comment-101464</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 17:33:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cool.  For me, the explanations of religious restrictions on behavior that I&#039;ve always been most sympathetic to are based on a depiction of the body as a precious gift.  Its needs and urges are not innately bad, merely by virtue of being physical.  In fact, the fulfillment of some of them can be among the most beautiful and exalted experiences in existence.  Correspondingly, the abuse of such a treasure is a real tragedy, like deliberately defacing a work of art.

Now, the treal trick is determining the behaviors that fall into each category.  That&#039;s where some of the unfortunate tendencies you mentioned in your post can creep in.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cool.  For me, the explanations of religious restrictions on behavior that I&#8217;ve always been most sympathetic to are based on a depiction of the body as a precious gift.  Its needs and urges are not innately bad, merely by virtue of being physical.  In fact, the fulfillment of some of them can be among the most beautiful and exalted experiences in existence.  Correspondingly, the abuse of such a treasure is a real tragedy, like deliberately defacing a work of art.</p>
<p>Now, the treal trick is determining the behaviors that fall into each category.  That&#8217;s where some of the unfortunate tendencies you mentioned in your post can creep in.</p>
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		<title>By: shiloh</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2009/06/28/fat-faith/#comment-101461</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 17:21:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;B&gt;chava,&lt;/b&gt; on July 1st, 2009 at 4:12 pm Said: 
&lt;i&gt;I have never heard, you should have children to pass on your thin genes–fat is assumed to be totally under our personal control.&lt;/i&gt;

I guess I agree that I&#039;ve never heard the discussion, but I always said I needed to marry a tall, thin guy so my kids wouldn&#039;t have to wrestle with the whole being short and fat thing the way I do.  Although I kind of suspect I wouldn&#039;t have the weight issues I do if I hadn&#039;t dieted.  *sigh*

Still working my way through the thread, which has been, on the whole, refreshingly polite.  Some clashes, of course, but the topic is volitile and there have been no explosions yet.  Shapelings impress me once more.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>chava,</b> on July 1st, 2009 at 4:12 pm Said:<br />
<i>I have never heard, you should have children to pass on your thin genes–fat is assumed to be totally under our personal control.</i></p>
<p>I guess I agree that I&#8217;ve never heard the discussion, but I always said I needed to marry a tall, thin guy so my kids wouldn&#8217;t have to wrestle with the whole being short and fat thing the way I do.  Although I kind of suspect I wouldn&#8217;t have the weight issues I do if I hadn&#8217;t dieted.  *sigh*</p>
<p>Still working my way through the thread, which has been, on the whole, refreshingly polite.  Some clashes, of course, but the topic is volitile and there have been no explosions yet.  Shapelings impress me once more.</p>
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		<title>By: A Sarah</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2009/06/28/fat-faith/#comment-101457</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[A Sarah]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 16:38:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@Richelle -- ME TOO!!  (You can&#039;t see it but I&#039;ve just clasped my hands to my bosom and looked upward in delight.) :-)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Richelle &#8212; ME TOO!!  (You can&#8217;t see it but I&#8217;ve just clasped my hands to my bosom and looked upward in delight.) :-)</p>
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		<title>By: Bonnie</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2009/06/28/fat-faith/#comment-101451</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 15:23:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For me, FA is part of my general betterment that began about 5 years ago when I fully embraced atheism and also began kicking my depression. 

I can&#039;t explain it very well. I&#039;m still trying to figure it out. But naming myself an atheist, rejecting the the ideas of ensoulment, an afterlife, the supernatural, and discovering more about science.. has prompted me not only to appreciate and care for myself, but also other people.

I haven&#039;t read the whole thread yet.. looks fascinating.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For me, FA is part of my general betterment that began about 5 years ago when I fully embraced atheism and also began kicking my depression. </p>
<p>I can&#8217;t explain it very well. I&#8217;m still trying to figure it out. But naming myself an atheist, rejecting the the ideas of ensoulment, an afterlife, the supernatural, and discovering more about science.. has prompted me not only to appreciate and care for myself, but also other people.</p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t read the whole thread yet.. looks fascinating.</p>
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