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		<title>By: Lexi</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2008/06/15/quick-hit-more-on-hair/#comment-83325</link>
		<dc:creator>Lexi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 20:25:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I shaved my head in highschool and then again after I had my daughter.  My mother hated it both times, but I just love the freedom of it.  I&#039;m about to go for a pixie cut and for the first time in my life I was worried about doing it.  I have gained a ton of weight (100+), and I was worried about looking fatter, but then I read the quest blog *Short cuts for Fat people* and she looked freaking awesome.  I&#039;m going to go get it cut right now.  I&#039;m reclaiming my craziness!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I shaved my head in highschool and then again after I had my daughter.  My mother hated it both times, but I just love the freedom of it.  I&#8217;m about to go for a pixie cut and for the first time in my life I was worried about doing it.  I have gained a ton of weight (100+), and I was worried about looking fatter, but then I read the quest blog *Short cuts for Fat people* and she looked freaking awesome.  I&#8217;m going to go get it cut right now.  I&#8217;m reclaiming my craziness!</p>
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		<title>By: NobleExperiments</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2008/06/15/quick-hit-more-on-hair/#comment-62725</link>
		<dc:creator>NobleExperiments</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 00:13:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Annette Benning in &quot;The American President&quot;.  Pixie-short and she looks fabulous (darn her anyways).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Annette Benning in &#8220;The American President&#8221;.  Pixie-short and she looks fabulous (darn her anyways).</p>
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		<title>By: Q Finder</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2008/06/15/quick-hit-more-on-hair/#comment-58564</link>
		<dc:creator>Q Finder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2008 01:24:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Audrey Hepburn!  Julie Andrews!  How could I have forgotten two of my favorites?  I was thinking more along the lines of Kate Hudson in &quot;How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days&quot; and the woman who plays the lead in &quot;Enchanted&quot; -- the big big movies that appeal to impressionable young teenagers (among others... like me...) for their love stories.  I must say, I feel pretty silly for not even remembering Meg Ryan.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Audrey Hepburn!  Julie Andrews!  How could I have forgotten two of my favorites?  I was thinking more along the lines of Kate Hudson in &#8220;How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days&#8221; and the woman who plays the lead in &#8220;Enchanted&#8221; &#8212; the big big movies that appeal to impressionable young teenagers (among others&#8230; like me&#8230;) for their love stories.  I must say, I feel pretty silly for not even remembering Meg Ryan.</p>
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		<title>By: moonlight0806</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2008/06/15/quick-hit-more-on-hair/#comment-58527</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 18:01:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The arguments against Locks of Love were silly and mostly based on public misconception about the charity. You shouldn&#039;t donate anything to charity without doing your homework first, so why should the charity be punished because the people donating did not take the time to read about the charity first. I have donated to Locks of Love three times and each time I managed to find their website and do a little research first, I have no sympathy for people who blindly follow anything including charities. 

Their website lists the donation requirements and that the charity is mainly organized around donating to children with long term hair loss due to alopecia.  It also states that the rest of the hair that does not fit the requirements will be sold to offset costs of producing the wigs, which doesn&#039;t make the sold hair any less valuable to the overall cause, without those donations the money to make the rest of the wigs would not be there.  As for the argument that the wigs should go to cancer patients instead of other children with alopecia, well thats just ridiculous because those children suffer just as much from the discrimination and self esteem loss without the cultural sympathy that cancer patients get.  

Donating hair is something everyone can do at a relatively small monetary cost to themselves.  The argument about money donations being more effective may be true, but thats not the point, the point is if you don&#039;t have that extra money to donate you still can donate your hair, its just another alternative way to help someone else&#039;s life.

And for all the people that made the argument that it would be more effective to provide them with synthetic wigs. I would like to know how many synthetic wigs that they personally provide children every year. It seems like when you try to do something nice people start crawling out of the walls to tell you your doing it wrong. The synthetic argument will become valid when people start growing synthetic hair on their heads that is as cost effective for them to donate. And when those synthetic wig supporters stop spending their time criticizing the group thats actually doing something about the issue and start doing something themselves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The arguments against Locks of Love were silly and mostly based on public misconception about the charity. You shouldn&#8217;t donate anything to charity without doing your homework first, so why should the charity be punished because the people donating did not take the time to read about the charity first. I have donated to Locks of Love three times and each time I managed to find their website and do a little research first, I have no sympathy for people who blindly follow anything including charities. </p>
<p>Their website lists the donation requirements and that the charity is mainly organized around donating to children with long term hair loss due to alopecia.  It also states that the rest of the hair that does not fit the requirements will be sold to offset costs of producing the wigs, which doesn&#8217;t make the sold hair any less valuable to the overall cause, without those donations the money to make the rest of the wigs would not be there.  As for the argument that the wigs should go to cancer patients instead of other children with alopecia, well thats just ridiculous because those children suffer just as much from the discrimination and self esteem loss without the cultural sympathy that cancer patients get.  </p>
<p>Donating hair is something everyone can do at a relatively small monetary cost to themselves.  The argument about money donations being more effective may be true, but thats not the point, the point is if you don&#8217;t have that extra money to donate you still can donate your hair, its just another alternative way to help someone else&#8217;s life.</p>
<p>And for all the people that made the argument that it would be more effective to provide them with synthetic wigs. I would like to know how many synthetic wigs that they personally provide children every year. It seems like when you try to do something nice people start crawling out of the walls to tell you your doing it wrong. The synthetic argument will become valid when people start growing synthetic hair on their heads that is as cost effective for them to donate. And when those synthetic wig supporters stop spending their time criticizing the group thats actually doing something about the issue and start doing something themselves.</p>
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		<title>By: boobsihazdem</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2008/06/15/quick-hit-more-on-hair/#comment-58485</link>
		<dc:creator>boobsihazdem</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 14:27:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Meg Ryan, too. There are tons of women in rock and pop with short hair. I&#039;m growing my hair long and honestly I tend to feel out of place amongst a lot of women - they all have shoulder length, or a bob cut, or another style of very very short hair - pixie and others.

Hair longer than BSL is not common where I live, and I adore having it and look forward to having it longer. The idea of shaving it off...would scare me. I get cysts on my scalp, and while I may be of the opinion that I am beautiful as a big person, or just as a person full stop, the idea of exposing those cysts to public scrutiny is..um.....yeah. Dunno.

I also warn people against donating to Loves of Love: http://www.livejournal.com/tools/memories.bml?user=longhair&amp;keyword=Locks+of+Love&amp;filter=all for an overview of some issues relating to them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Meg Ryan, too. There are tons of women in rock and pop with short hair. I&#8217;m growing my hair long and honestly I tend to feel out of place amongst a lot of women &#8211; they all have shoulder length, or a bob cut, or another style of very very short hair &#8211; pixie and others.</p>
<p>Hair longer than BSL is not common where I live, and I adore having it and look forward to having it longer. The idea of shaving it off&#8230;would scare me. I get cysts on my scalp, and while I may be of the opinion that I am beautiful as a big person, or just as a person full stop, the idea of exposing those cysts to public scrutiny is..um&#8230;..yeah. Dunno.</p>
<p>I also warn people against donating to Loves of Love: <a href="http://www.livejournal.com/tools/memories.bml?user=longhair&amp;keyword=Locks+of+Love&amp;filter=all" rel="nofollow">http://www.livejournal.com/tools/memories.bml?user=longhair&amp;keyword=Locks+of+Love&amp;filter=all</a> for an overview of some issues relating to them.</p>
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		<title>By: maewyn</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2008/06/15/quick-hit-more-on-hair/#comment-58383</link>
		<dc:creator>maewyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2008 19:32:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And Audrey Tautou in &lt;i&gt;Amelie&lt;/i&gt;. DAMN do I wish my hair could pull off that style! (I think it might be too fine. Aside from any issues I displayed upthread.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And Audrey Tautou in <i>Amelie</i>. DAMN do I wish my hair could pull off that style! (I think it might be too fine. Aside from any issues I displayed upthread.)</p>
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		<title>By: liz</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2008/06/15/quick-hit-more-on-hair/#comment-58371</link>
		<dc:creator>liz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2008 18:39:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Short-haired female leads: Audrey Hepburn, Demi Moore, Julie Andrews, Sigourney Weaver, Winona Ryder, Gwyneth Paltrow...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Short-haired female leads: Audrey Hepburn, Demi Moore, Julie Andrews, Sigourney Weaver, Winona Ryder, Gwyneth Paltrow&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Sniper</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2008/06/15/quick-hit-more-on-hair/#comment-58330</link>
		<dc:creator>Sniper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2008 15:17:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can very much relate to the &quot;don&#039;t look at my hair&quot; thing. I lost about 1/2 my hair many years ago -(Damn you, PCOS! DAMN YOUUUUUUU!!!)It will never grow back, but I keep hoping it will. I would &lt;i&gt;love&lt;/i&gt; to stop wishing it would come back. Shaving my head is not an option - it would look hideous and I would definitely have trouble at work. I think my goal is now to stop worrying about my hair before what&#039;s left of it turns completely white.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can very much relate to the &#8220;don&#8217;t look at my hair&#8221; thing. I lost about 1/2 my hair many years ago -(Damn you, PCOS! DAMN YOUUUUUUU!!!)It will never grow back, but I keep hoping it will. I would <i>love</i> to stop wishing it would come back. Shaving my head is not an option &#8211; it would look hideous and I would definitely have trouble at work. I think my goal is now to stop worrying about my hair before what&#8217;s left of it turns completely white.</p>
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		<title>By: Dani</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2008/06/15/quick-hit-more-on-hair/#comment-58328</link>
		<dc:creator>Dani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2008 13:19:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I cut mine down to nothing right after undergrad.  It was great for washing, but I got tired of paying for haircuts every four weeks.  (It grows stupid-fast.)

The best part of the entire experience was when a friend of a friend announced that he &quot;knew&quot; I was a lesbian because I had &quot;short hair&quot; and &quot;a boy&#039;s name.&quot;  Friend and I got a major kick out of that one...especially since my friend is bisexual.  :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I cut mine down to nothing right after undergrad.  It was great for washing, but I got tired of paying for haircuts every four weeks.  (It grows stupid-fast.)</p>
<p>The best part of the entire experience was when a friend of a friend announced that he &#8220;knew&#8221; I was a lesbian because I had &#8220;short hair&#8221; and &#8220;a boy&#8217;s name.&#8221;  Friend and I got a major kick out of that one&#8230;especially since my friend is bisexual.  :D</p>
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		<title>By: Heather</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2008/06/15/quick-hit-more-on-hair/#comment-58300</link>
		<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 20:07:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Goodness. 

Hair is such an issue for me. As a fat gal, I&#039;ve always wanted pretty hair. I&#039;ve always had thin hair. I never got to have long hair, because when I was young, my parents didn&#039;t want to deal with it. When I was a teen, I couldn&#039;t get it to really do much past shoulder length. It started thinning when I was in my late teens due to PCOS _and_ hypothyroidism. Now I keep it at chin length and I just deal with having my scalp visible.

Both of my daughters have &quot;good&quot; thick hair, and I let them grow it as long as they want it. :</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Goodness. </p>
<p>Hair is such an issue for me. As a fat gal, I&#8217;ve always wanted pretty hair. I&#8217;ve always had thin hair. I never got to have long hair, because when I was young, my parents didn&#8217;t want to deal with it. When I was a teen, I couldn&#8217;t get it to really do much past shoulder length. It started thinning when I was in my late teens due to PCOS _and_ hypothyroidism. Now I keep it at chin length and I just deal with having my scalp visible.</p>
<p>Both of my daughters have &#8220;good&#8221; thick hair, and I let them grow it as long as they want it. :</p>
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