Also, Duh

2008 March 31
by Kate Harding

I missed my own damn blogiversary.

I always think of April 1 as the day I officially switched over from Pointless, Incessant Barking to Shapely Prose, but as that post shows, it was actually March 30, 2007. I have been doing this for a year and a day now.

Thank you SO FUCKING MUCH to all the Shapelings who have made this such an incredible community, and to Fillyjonk and Sweet Machine for raising the standard of discourse by a mile, even if they don’t swear quite enough for my tastes. A year ago, I sure as hell did not expect to see my name in a New York Times article and my face on the cover of a magazine, or to get an agent, let alone a book deal, within a year of starting to spout off about fat hatred. HOLY CRAP, Y’ALL. This blog has become so much bigger than me (and that’s saying something–*rimshot*), which is entirely thanks to the readers and commentariat who make it so much fun to keep going every day. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

ETA: I can’t believe I forgot to mention this before–big, fat thanks are also due to Melissa McEwan for inviting me to be a Shakesville contributor and Joy Nash for linking to me at the height of the Fat Rant craze. Those two things had a huge effect on the success of this blog, especially because they came right together. Every time I talk to a reporter, they ask why I think the blog got so popular so fast, and I say, “Well, I was invited to blog at Shakesville, which has loads of readers, and then Joy Nash plugged me when the whole world was talking about her video, and I think those two things brought my traffic to a tipping point, after which word of mouth could keep it snowballing.” The reporters are always just like, “Oh,” and that factoid never makes it into the articles. I think they want me to say something like “The fat acceptance movement’s time has finally come” or “Well, it’s the natural consequence of having my finger on the pulse of the Zeitgeist, duh.” Nope: Liss, Joy, word of mouth. So thanks loads to the two of them!

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  1. 2008 March 31
    fillyjonk permalink

    I swear plenty, motherfucker!

  2. 2008 March 31

    I swear plenty, motherfucker!

    Yes, but you could always do, er, worse? better? ;o)

    Happy fuckin’ Blogiversary!!!

  3. 2008 March 31
    fillyjonk permalink

    You know, I just looked at the stats, and we’ve gotten 50% more hits so far today than we did in the entire month of April last year. Goddamn, woman, way to move fast.

  4. 2008 March 31

    Congratulations! I forget how I found you, but this site has become one of my “must reads” and your posts (and SMs and FJs) really force me to think.
    And, of course, have helped me hate myself just a little less. Keep it up! :-)

  5. 2008 March 31

    Happy fucking blogaversary, Kate! Long may you wave!

  6. 2008 March 31

    Kate, Happy Blogiversary! I Shapely Prose is dear to my heart and I’ve been reading it about 6 months now and it has been my comfort and bible all simultaneously. To have someone who writes what I feel to the T, makes me feel positive and grateful that I’m not the only one that is going through accepting myself and getting over the fantasies and finally demanding respect. Had it not been for the Fantasy of Being Thin post I’d probably be fighting another eating disorder head on. You rock so hard and I couldn’t tell be more thankful ♥♥♥

  7. 2008 March 31

    Oh, Fillyjonk & Sweetmachine you guys rock plenty too!

  8. 2008 March 31
    fillyjonk permalink

    Oh, Fillyjonk & Sweetmachine you guys rock plenty too!

    Hey, we hopped on this train after it had already gathered speed. Credit for making the blog a force of nature rests entirely with Kate.

  9. 2008 March 31

    Holy crap! Has it really been a year? DUDE.

    Oh, man! It’ll be April 7th for me. Wow. Who’d have thunk?

    Also, just to help your rating:

    FUCKING HELL THIS SHIT IS RAD.

  10. 2008 March 31
    Suzanne permalink

    Thank you, thank you, thank you.

    Thank YOU, Kate, Fillyjonk and Sweet Machine. Y’all do awesome work.

  11. 2008 March 31

    Happy annibloggaversary. I love this fucking place.

  12. 2008 March 31

    Congratulations!!! Keep on keepin’ on, ladies!

  13. 2008 March 31
    Cindy permalink

    This blog rocks. Found you from the gateway drug BFD.

    My girlfriend remarked yesterday that I laugh hysterically while reading this blog.

    She took that as a sign that highbrow lefties have an actual sense of humor. She suspected, but verification can be nice.

  14. 2008 March 31

    Happy Blogiversary! You guys fuckin rule.

  15. 2008 March 31
    Buffy permalink

    Definitely…Happy Anniversary one day past due. I found this site through a link via the comments on feministing.com. I’ve visted ever since and appreciate all that you, sweetmachine and fillyjonk have to say!!

  16. 2008 March 31

    Congrats! And here’s to many more years of blogging bliss.

  17. 2008 March 31

    “I wish the fuck it would rain.”

    “Yeah, I wish the fuck it would.”

    “Oh fucky fuck fuck fuck.”

    Good morning and happy fucking blogiversary, starshine. The earth says hello.

  18. 2008 March 31

    Congratulations! I just found your blog a couple weeks ago, but i’ve been reading every day since! Bravo to you.

  19. 2008 March 31

    Happy Fucking Bloggiversary Kate!!
    You didn’t need me to blow the lid off this motherfucker.. :)

  20. 2008 March 31

    Happy Bloggiversary :-D Thank God you started writing this fucking thing! I’d be up shit creek without it!

  21. 2008 March 31
    Linz permalink

    Happy birthday, Shapely Prose! If I could, I would totally bake you a cake filled with babies. And I would write swear words all over it in donut-flavored icing.

  22. 2008 March 31
    killedbyllamas permalink

    Merry fucking blogiversary!

  23. 2008 March 31

    Shit, what they all said, this blog fucking rocks, and so do y’all. Happy Fucking Blogiversary!!!11!!!

  24. 2008 March 31
    Time-Machine permalink

    Happy Blogiversay!!! Thank you so much for creating this blog. It is made of complete fuckin’ awesome.

  25. 2008 March 31
    Becky permalink

    Happy anniversary! Love this place =)

  26. 2008 March 31

    Congratulations on a year, your readers, and perhaps most importantly saying what needs to be said in a brilliant and entertaining way.

    Good morning and happy fucking blogiversary, starshine. The earth says hello.

    I fucking love that song – it’s brings me to a happy place. Thanks for unexpected pick-me-up!

  27. 2008 March 31
    NinthPossibility permalink

    Happy anniversary! Sometimes I don’t know what I’d do without this blog. Three cheers to the whole community!

  28. 2008 March 31

    She took that as a sign that highbrow lefties have an actual sense of humor. She suspected, but verification can be nice.

    That completely cracked me up–awesome.

  29. 2008 March 31

    Happy Anniversary! And thank you for this amazing community; it’s given me lots of laughter and things to think about. I’m so proud to be a Shapeling, especially right now. :)

  30. 2008 March 31

    happy fucking blogoversary! even if it is one fucking day late!

    here’s to fucking saying what’s needing to be fucking said!

    and not being fucking “polite” about it!

    you are a fucking inspiration, really!

    *fuckles*

  31. 2008 March 31
    ralfalfa permalink

    thank YOU for fearlessly writing! happy one year. i’m gonna eat some noodles to celebrate you.

  32. 2008 March 31
    Jen permalink

    Happy blogiversary!

  33. 2008 March 31
    spacedcowgirl permalink

    Found you from the gateway drug BFD.

    Gateway drug is right, Cindy, and me too! I bet there are others like us too. :)

    Happy Blogiversary to the three of you and thank you SO much for Shapely Prose. You have done more than you know for your readers. <3

  34. 2008 March 31

    *fuckles*

    My new favorite word ever.

  35. 2008 March 31
    caseyatthebat permalink

    Wow, guys. Do you think you could tone down the cursing a little bit? It really is offensive to my virgin ears. Seriously, do you really think that it is lady-like to use the “f” word? What will happen to the children?

    *sarcasm*

    Second on fuckles. I’m spreading the word on that one.

    Happy Blogiversary!

  36. 2008 March 31

    Yaaaay! Congratu-fucking-lations! (Fuck me! Has it really been a year already?)

  37. 2008 March 31
    Garnet permalink

    Happy fuckin’ blogiversary! You guys are awesome.

  38. 2008 March 31
    Cindy permalink

    Shittles!

    For a second there, I thought caseyatthebat was serious. (Well, surprise me cunt!)

  39. 2008 March 31
    ladykuri permalink

    Happy Anniversary! Wow, I can’t believe it only took a year for you to manage to build such an awesome resource, community and inspiration!!! Granted I’ve only been here a couple weeks, but damn…..to have done so much in a year? Rock the fuck on girls, cause you are AWESOME!!!!

  40. 2008 March 31

    Congratulations – and THANK YOU! I know it sounds like a cliche, but reading Shapely Prose has actually Changed My Life. and yay!

  41. 2008 March 31

    Happy fuckin’ anniversary!

  42. 2008 April 1
    JAS permalink

    Happy Blogiversary, Kate, and thank you again for everything you do here. You’re made of fuckin’ fabulous!

  43. 2008 April 1
    tanaudel permalink

    Happy anniversary!

  44. 2008 April 1

    Congrats. You’ve had huge success over the course of 1 year with this blog and getting the fatosphere into the media’s awareness. I hope Shapely Prose continues to grow as a fat acceptance community. :_

  45. 2008 April 1
    car permalink

    Happy happy happy! I have no idea now how I found you, back when it was just you and your amazing yoga pose on the front page, :) but I’m glad I did. And even happier at the success and expansion thereof! (um, of the blog, not of the yoga pose)

  46. 2008 April 1
    i-geek permalink

    Linz: “Happy birthday, Shapely Prose! If I could, I would totally bake you a cake filled with babies. And I would write swear words all over it in donut-flavored icing.”

    Couldn’t you save yourself a step and shape the baby-flavored donut dough into letters that spell out swear words? ;-D

    Happy blogoversary to the lovely trio that keeps this place running!

  47. 2008 April 1

    Before I found Shapely Prose, I was crying all of the time and ate nothing but celery sticks with Walden Farms dressing. I wore exclusively items purchased from Rite Aid and thought I would never be pretty.
    What a difference a year makes!
    Now, I do pilates, eat intuitively and sing songs of love to my own body. I’ve never been this happy in my life.
    Thank you, Kate Harding, for turning my life around.

    Okay, so I’m exaggerating just a little bit, but my life is truly better with KH, FJ and SM and all of the Shapelings in it! I don’t imagine I would blog without this one existing first.

  48. 2008 April 1
    Linz permalink

    i-geek, wouldn’t they become all puffy and unreadable when they baked? No, wait, fatties never get around to baking anything because we just eat the dough raw.

    Though, could you get salmonella from raw baby donut dough?

  49. 2008 April 1
    Elusis permalink

    Thank you so much for establishing this place, recruiting amazing co-bloggers, and inspiring my work and life in new directions.

    Oh, and: FUCK!!!

  50. 2008 April 1
    Mickey permalink

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY SHAPELY PROSE! And many moooooooooore….

  51. 2008 April 1
    Mickey permalink

    @Linz: Come to Denmark! We have guaranteed salmonella-free eggs and poultry! Then the entire Fatosphere can eat raw baby-flavored donut dough to their hearts’ content! Also, if memory serves, DK has the highest birth rate in Europe (likely due to having state-subsidized day care and generous parental leave policies), so there’s no shortage of baby-flavor either!

  52. 2008 April 1

    so there’s no shortage of baby-flavor either!

    Ha!

    State-subsidized day care AND no salmonella? Why don’t I live in Denmark again?

  53. 2008 April 1

    It’s been really exciting to watch and participate. Whooh fucking hooh!!!

  54. 2008 April 1

    I wore exclusively items purchased from Rite Aid and thought I would never be pretty.

    AAAAAAAAAAAHHHAHAHHAHAHAAAAAaaa

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