Another Heartbreaking Secret

2008 January 13
by Kate Harding

From PostSecret:

And if you missed this one before, it’s a killer.

11 Responses leave one →
  1. 2008 January 13

    That’s heartbreaking.
    That is all.

  2. 2008 January 13
    car permalink

    And I’m sure that everyone tells him/her how good they look.

    I always read Postsecret, but I didn’t remember the other one. That one breaks me.

  3. 2008 January 13

    Car, that other one has happened to me. And many others of us i am sure.

  4. 2008 January 13

    Fatphobia is going to make cocaine the first legalized drug, and marijuana the last.

  5. 2008 January 13
    hedda permalink

    I wonder if she’ll be so grateful to have been thin all those years when her doctor tells her that if she does one more line, she’s going to kill herself – a la Stevie Nicks.

  6. 2008 January 14

    I’m dealing with my monthly Girl Situation so this made me literally cry.

    People just…wow.

  7. 2008 January 14

    I’m on the LiveJournal postsecret communty, where users make their own secrets, and they are posted once a day for other readers to appreciate.

    The number of secrets like these is staggering, and heartbreaking. I catch as many as I can, I say kind words, I point them here or at TR or at some other FA blog, I TRY.

    My secret?

    Inside my heart are a hundred secrets about how I feel about my own fat, and what I would do to get rid of it, and how much it sometimes makes me hate myself.

    So, to the sentiment behind so many of them . . . me, too, I guess.

  8. 2008 January 14
    Mustella permalink

    Mee too, Buttercup, at least twice that I know of.

  9. 2008 January 17
    JAN permalink

    I saw this secret on Sunday and it made me so sad. I wanted to find this person and hug them. I can’t imagine the feeling of being unable to love your own body enough to accept it and be comfortable with who you are.

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