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		<title>By: Myytinmurtaja</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/12/20/stop-me-if-youve-heard-this-one/#comment-116991</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Myytinmurtaja]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 00:35:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great post! 

So, why do these misogynist jokers completely lose their sense of humor, if you turn the tables on them?


&lt;i&gt;&quot;- Why do only 10% of men make it to heaven?

 - Because if they all went, it would be Hell.&quot;&lt;/i&gt;


Can&#039;t you take a joke, guys?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post! </p>
<p>So, why do these misogynist jokers completely lose their sense of humor, if you turn the tables on them?</p>
<p><i>&#8220;- Why do only 10% of men make it to heaven?</p>
<p> &#8211; Because if they all went, it would be Hell.&#8221;</i></p>
<p>Can&#8217;t you take a joke, guys?</p>
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		<title>By: PC. :: Xtinian Thoughts</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/12/20/stop-me-if-youve-heard-this-one/#comment-73799</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[PC. :: Xtinian Thoughts]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2008 18:22:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] like a douchebag. Mind you, most of my friends *are* respectful, so it doesn&#8217;t come up much.Eve Tags: Awesome Quotes, pc, Source:Shapely [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] like a douchebag. Mind you, most of my friends *are* respectful, so it doesn&#8217;t come up much.Eve Tags: Awesome Quotes, pc, Source:Shapely [...]</p>
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		<title>By: loobiesmith</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/12/20/stop-me-if-youve-heard-this-one/#comment-63932</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[loobiesmith]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2008 18:35:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So well said, that I can&#039;t add a thing but bravo!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So well said, that I can&#8217;t add a thing but bravo!</p>
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		<title>By: Chiara</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/12/20/stop-me-if-youve-heard-this-one/#comment-31622</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Chiara]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Dec 2007 07:16:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[**delurk**
Since I&#039;m new here (linked over from Cecily Kellogg&#039;s blog), I had to read all the links...

Your story of dealing with the strange man approach outside the club reminded me of when I was very young and sheltered and new to the big city of Memphis.  I completely didn&#039;t get that I wasn&#039;t supposed to smile and be grateful when strange men hollered at me on downtown streets.  Not to mention I was very afraid of coming off like a racist white bitch if I were to ignore a non-white man.  Argggh.  (I had to be schooled by a wise old man I knew: &quot;They don&#039;t know you.  Don&#039;t even look at a motherfucker unless he says &#039;hey, Chiara&#039;&quot;)

Anyway, it was much later that I became a Miss Manners fan (yay, Linda!) and she has a great article on this situation that I wish I could find a link to.  It boils down to:  Etiquette absolutely does NOT require a woman to respond to overtures from a man she is not acquainted with.  We&#039;ve somehow internalized the idea that it&#039;s so very rude not to at least talk to him (and a lot of men certainly have), but that has actually never been the case.  

Sorry to be off the main topic.  Also, you are awesome.  And funny.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>**delurk**<br />
Since I&#8217;m new here (linked over from Cecily Kellogg&#8217;s blog), I had to read all the links&#8230;</p>
<p>Your story of dealing with the strange man approach outside the club reminded me of when I was very young and sheltered and new to the big city of Memphis.  I completely didn&#8217;t get that I wasn&#8217;t supposed to smile and be grateful when strange men hollered at me on downtown streets.  Not to mention I was very afraid of coming off like a racist white bitch if I were to ignore a non-white man.  Argggh.  (I had to be schooled by a wise old man I knew: &#8220;They don&#8217;t know you.  Don&#8217;t even look at a motherfucker unless he says &#8216;hey, Chiara&#8217;&#8221;)</p>
<p>Anyway, it was much later that I became a Miss Manners fan (yay, Linda!) and she has a great article on this situation that I wish I could find a link to.  It boils down to:  Etiquette absolutely does NOT require a woman to respond to overtures from a man she is not acquainted with.  We&#8217;ve somehow internalized the idea that it&#8217;s so very rude not to at least talk to him (and a lot of men certainly have), but that has actually never been the case.  </p>
<p>Sorry to be off the main topic.  Also, you are awesome.  And funny.</p>
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		<title>By: car</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/12/20/stop-me-if-youve-heard-this-one/#comment-31301</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[car]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Dec 2007 14:56:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The unicycle/testosterone article is a spoof; the BMJ does a fake issue in December every year. Sadly, none of the &quot;science&quot; writers at many of the biggest news outlets seem to be competent at their jobs, and reported it as real. 

I love the Canadian joke, but who says Canadians don&#039;t have a sense of humor? I was just discussing with a Canadian friend of mine this week why it is that so many more good comedians are Canadian than USAan. He thought that it was possibly that they&#039;re much more self-assured than we are (as a broad stereotype)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The unicycle/testosterone article is a spoof; the BMJ does a fake issue in December every year. Sadly, none of the &#8220;science&#8221; writers at many of the biggest news outlets seem to be competent at their jobs, and reported it as real. </p>
<p>I love the Canadian joke, but who says Canadians don&#8217;t have a sense of humor? I was just discussing with a Canadian friend of mine this week why it is that so many more good comedians are Canadian than USAan. He thought that it was possibly that they&#8217;re much more self-assured than we are (as a broad stereotype)</p>
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		<title>By: Temper212</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/12/20/stop-me-if-youve-heard-this-one/#comment-31084</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Temper212]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Dec 2007 21:16:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh good LORD-   I really wish I&#039;d heard of the O&amp;A Rape comment sooner-   Somewhere around that time I was all riled up over some guy who wrote an article about how roller derby fans were all stupid backwards rednecks.

Being a derby girl, that&#039;s yet another OLD JOKE that I&#039;m sick of.  I work really hard at what I do-  it IS a sport, and it IS 100% real.

But POINT BEING-  since I was all riled up at that point, I would have loved to dig into yet another character.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh good LORD-   I really wish I&#8217;d heard of the O&amp;A Rape comment sooner-   Somewhere around that time I was all riled up over some guy who wrote an article about how roller derby fans were all stupid backwards rednecks.</p>
<p>Being a derby girl, that&#8217;s yet another OLD JOKE that I&#8217;m sick of.  I work really hard at what I do-  it IS a sport, and it IS 100% real.</p>
<p>But POINT BEING-  since I was all riled up at that point, I would have loved to dig into yet another character.</p>
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		<title>By: Rape is Hilarious &#171; Diary of a Fat Teenager</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/12/20/stop-me-if-youve-heard-this-one/#comment-31010</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rape is Hilarious &#171; Diary of a Fat Teenager]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Dec 2007 18:31:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] and here is the link to the original articel (by fillyjonk) that drove me to write this post: http://kateharding.net/2007/12/20/stop-me-if-youve-heard-this-one/ [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] and here is the link to the original articel (by fillyjonk) that drove me to write this post: <a href="http://kateharding.net/2007/12/20/stop-me-if-youve-heard-this-one/" rel="nofollow">http://kateharding.net/2007/12/20/stop-me-if-youve-heard-this-one/</a> [...]</p>
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		<title>By: fillyjonk</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/12/20/stop-me-if-youve-heard-this-one/#comment-30960</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[fillyjonk]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Dec 2007 17:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Crap, my testosterone levels are pretty well controlled... I hope I haven&#039;t gotten less funny!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Crap, my testosterone levels are pretty well controlled&#8230; I hope I haven&#8217;t gotten less funny!</p>
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		<title>By: kateharding</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/12/20/stop-me-if-youve-heard-this-one/#comment-30958</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[kateharding]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Dec 2007 17:03:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;i&gt;But Kate, aren’t all of us who have PCOS raging with testosterone? That would explain why I keep crushing beer cans on my head. And I don’t even drink beer.&lt;/i&gt;

Ha! I don&#039;t have PCOS, actually -- that&#039;s FJ. So I&#039;m still assuming I have near-zero levels of testosterone. PCOS might explain why you guys are so damn funny, though.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>But Kate, aren’t all of us who have PCOS raging with testosterone? That would explain why I keep crushing beer cans on my head. And I don’t even drink beer.</i></p>
<p>Ha! I don&#8217;t have PCOS, actually &#8212; that&#8217;s FJ. So I&#8217;m still assuming I have near-zero levels of testosterone. PCOS might explain why you guys are so damn funny, though.</p>
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		<title>By: zombie z</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[zombie z]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Dec 2007 17:01:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have such a sarcastic personality that people never know when I&#039;m being funny and when I&#039;m just *being*. It&#039;s really uncool when you want to tell someone off and they think it&#039;s just snark. I must immediately implement a sweet, meek female charicature to make my anger contrast better.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have such a sarcastic personality that people never know when I&#8217;m being funny and when I&#8217;m just *being*. It&#8217;s really uncool when you want to tell someone off and they think it&#8217;s just snark. I must immediately implement a sweet, meek female charicature to make my anger contrast better.</p>
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