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		<title>By: Puppie</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/08/13/awareness/#comment-7231</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Aug 2007 03:11:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I quit my pack-a-day addiction, I spent the month leading up to that quit thinking about all of the reasons I wanted to quit and everything that sucked about smoking. I did this every time I had a cigarette, the entire time I smoked it. After a month of this, I had drained all of the joy out of smoking and it felt like nothing but a burden. I actually felt *glad* to finally be done with it.

I quit cold turkey, and replaced with dum-dum suckers. I found that the hand-to-mouth motion was very similar so it made for a good replacement, plus they taste nice. I just put piles of dum-dum suckers wherever I normally would have had a pack laying around (the dum-dum sucker habit tailed itself off after a few months...)

I also figured out how much money I was spending on cigs per month and bought something else with that money. That way I could honestly tell myself that smokes were not in my budget and I couldn&#039;t afford them.

I spent a lot of time in online quit-support groups, specifically &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.swen.uwaterloo.ca/~as3/faq/faq.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;AS3&lt;/a&gt;.

And when I&#039;m having a hard time, I tell myself, &quot;One pack away from a pack a day&quot; and &quot;Not one puff, not ever&quot;.

Good luck! When I smoked I got bronchitis every single year like clockwork. Since I quit 5 years ago I&#039;ve never had it since.

YOU CAN DO IT! People quit every day. Come on, be a quitter too! ;-)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I quit my pack-a-day addiction, I spent the month leading up to that quit thinking about all of the reasons I wanted to quit and everything that sucked about smoking. I did this every time I had a cigarette, the entire time I smoked it. After a month of this, I had drained all of the joy out of smoking and it felt like nothing but a burden. I actually felt *glad* to finally be done with it.</p>
<p>I quit cold turkey, and replaced with dum-dum suckers. I found that the hand-to-mouth motion was very similar so it made for a good replacement, plus they taste nice. I just put piles of dum-dum suckers wherever I normally would have had a pack laying around (the dum-dum sucker habit tailed itself off after a few months&#8230;)</p>
<p>I also figured out how much money I was spending on cigs per month and bought something else with that money. That way I could honestly tell myself that smokes were not in my budget and I couldn&#8217;t afford them.</p>
<p>I spent a lot of time in online quit-support groups, specifically <a href="http://www.swen.uwaterloo.ca/~as3/faq/faq.html" rel="nofollow">AS3</a>.</p>
<p>And when I&#8217;m having a hard time, I tell myself, &#8220;One pack away from a pack a day&#8221; and &#8220;Not one puff, not ever&#8221;.</p>
<p>Good luck! When I smoked I got bronchitis every single year like clockwork. Since I quit 5 years ago I&#8217;ve never had it since.</p>
<p>YOU CAN DO IT! People quit every day. Come on, be a quitter too! ;-)</p>
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		<title>By: Lea</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/08/13/awareness/#comment-7142</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2007 14:59:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I hope you can manage to give up smoking. My Mom has been smoking for 40 years and was diagnosed with Stage 4 lung cancer last October. The worst part was that she was misdiagnosed with allergies, sinus problems and bronchitis for six months before the cancer diagnosis -- her only symptom was a cough. If it had been caught earlier, she would have been a candidate for surgery, which would have increased her five-year survival chances.

Until my Mom got sick, I had no problem with smokers -- it was their choice. But my Mom is 57 years old and will most likely die in the next year. She&#039;s too young for us to lose her. Had she quit smoking even 10 years ago she&#039;d have been better off. So I tell people my Mom&#039;s story as encouragement to quit. Women between the ages of 55 and 65 have the highest risk of lung cancer. With people living well into their 80s and even their 90s, do you want to cut your life that short?

And for what it&#039;s worth, my Mom is still smoking. As she says, she&#039;d quit immediately if it would add years to her life. But it&#039;s too late for that.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hope you can manage to give up smoking. My Mom has been smoking for 40 years and was diagnosed with Stage 4 lung cancer last October. The worst part was that she was misdiagnosed with allergies, sinus problems and bronchitis for six months before the cancer diagnosis &#8212; her only symptom was a cough. If it had been caught earlier, she would have been a candidate for surgery, which would have increased her five-year survival chances.</p>
<p>Until my Mom got sick, I had no problem with smokers &#8212; it was their choice. But my Mom is 57 years old and will most likely die in the next year. She&#8217;s too young for us to lose her. Had she quit smoking even 10 years ago she&#8217;d have been better off. So I tell people my Mom&#8217;s story as encouragement to quit. Women between the ages of 55 and 65 have the highest risk of lung cancer. With people living well into their 80s and even their 90s, do you want to cut your life that short?</p>
<p>And for what it&#8217;s worth, my Mom is still smoking. As she says, she&#8217;d quit immediately if it would add years to her life. But it&#8217;s too late for that.</p>
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		<title>By: Bitty</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/08/13/awareness/#comment-6732</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 18:59:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My mother quit suddenly, impulsively, a year and a half ago.  She got up one morning and said no more.

She was age 71 at the time.  She had smoked for almost 60 years.  

I think you&#039;re on to something.   

(May the bronchitis leave you soon!)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My mother quit suddenly, impulsively, a year and a half ago.  She got up one morning and said no more.</p>
<p>She was age 71 at the time.  She had smoked for almost 60 years.  </p>
<p>I think you&#8217;re on to something.   </p>
<p>(May the bronchitis leave you soon!)</p>
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		<title>By: gemellen</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/08/13/awareness/#comment-6689</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 11:27:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[feel better, sistah.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>feel better, sistah.</p>
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		<title>By: PortlyDyke</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/08/13/awareness/#comment-6670</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 03:03:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[After all that, I failed to close a tag.  Sorry all, for the endless italics.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After all that, I failed to close a tag.  Sorry all, for the endless italics.</p>
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		<title>By: PortlyDyke</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/08/13/awareness/#comment-6669</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 03:02:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK -- first -- I relate COMPLETELY with the stuff about becoming more aware of your body = having to listen to shit that you used to just glide by.  It&#039;s a blessing and a curse, I agree.

A hint -- however wacky you may think this may be -- I&#039;m ready for the slings and arrows from those who think this is &quot;woo-woo&quot; crap -- but hey -- try it before you stick me, OK?  

At the first notion of &quot;feeling off&quot; (especially if it&#039;s a &quot;coldish&quot; feeling) take some Ferrum Phos &lt;i&gt;right away &lt;i&gt;( it&#039;s a common homeopathic remedy -- maybe $7 for a tube that will last you half-a year?).  

Frankly, I don&#039;t care if it&#039;s the placebo effect or not -- it&#039;s helped me.  Of course, this intake of Ferrum Phos has to be accompanied by responding to the message my body is giving me anyway:  &quot;Lay the fuck down!  Stop stressing out!&quot; etc..

Secondly:  For those who want to quit smoking -- change cigarette brands to something that has absolutely no additives (I recommend American Spirit) -- then, to organic American Spirit.  Very few people realize how addicted they are to the additives in cigarettes, and then, to the chemicals used to fertilize non-organic tobacco.  (Personally, I think that this is a major factor in the cancers related to tobacco).

Yes, these brands are expensive.  Good.  It makes it even more painful to buy a pack.

Then, realize that you&#039;re still addicted to the nicotine, if you are.  Want a personal alternative to a nicotine patch?  Try wetting a little organic tobacco, putting it between your little and fourth toes, and putting a band-aid around both.  Your body absorbs small amounts of nicotine, and you probably won&#039;t go crazy with nicotine cravings.  

Either go cold turkey, or adopt a pipe/roll your own.  Thanks to Lord of the Rings, there are some really cool pipes available online. Believe me, without that convenient filter, you&#039;re going to get into a whole new world of tobacco -- you&#039;ll actually experience the harshness of what&#039;s going into your lungs.

I smoked from age 15 to 30.  I quit at 30, cold turkey, by promising myself that in another 15 years, I could smoke again if I wanted to.  I actually have consumed tobacco again since I turned 45, and will quit when I&#039;m 60.

I won&#039;t lie.  I still smoke.  I usually smoke the equivalent of about 3 cigarettes every day.  But now, I actually enjoy tobacco, and I can abstain from tobacco for 48 hours without becoming a banshee.  

My partner is chemically sensitive, and I don&#039;t smoke around her, and that&#039;s not a problem.  It&#039;s something I enjoy and engage in consciously.  For me, the exact things that have led me to &quot;health&quot; around food issues (being aware of what I eat, and when, and why) have also transformed how I smoke and how I feel about smoking (what, when, and why).  I know that some people will probably call this denial.  That&#039;s OK with me.

And Kate -- honor your body.  It&#039;s Divine!

Sending (only if you want it) big love and great energy for your lungs to be liberated.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK &#8212; first &#8212; I relate COMPLETELY with the stuff about becoming more aware of your body = having to listen to shit that you used to just glide by.  It&#8217;s a blessing and a curse, I agree.</p>
<p>A hint &#8212; however wacky you may think this may be &#8212; I&#8217;m ready for the slings and arrows from those who think this is &#8220;woo-woo&#8221; crap &#8212; but hey &#8212; try it before you stick me, OK?  </p>
<p>At the first notion of &#8220;feeling off&#8221; (especially if it&#8217;s a &#8220;coldish&#8221; feeling) take some Ferrum Phos <i>right away </i><i>( it&#8217;s a common homeopathic remedy &#8212; maybe $7 for a tube that will last you half-a year?).  </p>
<p>Frankly, I don&#8217;t care if it&#8217;s the placebo effect or not &#8212; it&#8217;s helped me.  Of course, this intake of Ferrum Phos has to be accompanied by responding to the message my body is giving me anyway:  &#8220;Lay the fuck down!  Stop stressing out!&#8221; etc..</p>
<p>Secondly:  For those who want to quit smoking &#8212; change cigarette brands to something that has absolutely no additives (I recommend American Spirit) &#8212; then, to organic American Spirit.  Very few people realize how addicted they are to the additives in cigarettes, and then, to the chemicals used to fertilize non-organic tobacco.  (Personally, I think that this is a major factor in the cancers related to tobacco).</p>
<p>Yes, these brands are expensive.  Good.  It makes it even more painful to buy a pack.</p>
<p>Then, realize that you&#8217;re still addicted to the nicotine, if you are.  Want a personal alternative to a nicotine patch?  Try wetting a little organic tobacco, putting it between your little and fourth toes, and putting a band-aid around both.  Your body absorbs small amounts of nicotine, and you probably won&#8217;t go crazy with nicotine cravings.  </p>
<p>Either go cold turkey, or adopt a pipe/roll your own.  Thanks to Lord of the Rings, there are some really cool pipes available online. Believe me, without that convenient filter, you&#8217;re going to get into a whole new world of tobacco &#8212; you&#8217;ll actually experience the harshness of what&#8217;s going into your lungs.</p>
<p>I smoked from age 15 to 30.  I quit at 30, cold turkey, by promising myself that in another 15 years, I could smoke again if I wanted to.  I actually have consumed tobacco again since I turned 45, and will quit when I&#8217;m 60.</p>
<p>I won&#8217;t lie.  I still smoke.  I usually smoke the equivalent of about 3 cigarettes every day.  But now, I actually enjoy tobacco, and I can abstain from tobacco for 48 hours without becoming a banshee.  </p>
<p>My partner is chemically sensitive, and I don&#8217;t smoke around her, and that&#8217;s not a problem.  It&#8217;s something I enjoy and engage in consciously.  For me, the exact things that have led me to &#8220;health&#8221; around food issues (being aware of what I eat, and when, and why) have also transformed how I smoke and how I feel about smoking (what, when, and why).  I know that some people will probably call this denial.  That&#8217;s OK with me.</p>
<p>And Kate &#8212; honor your body.  It&#8217;s Divine!</p>
<p>Sending (only if you want it) big love and great energy for your lungs to be liberated.</i></p>
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		<title>By: robin</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/08/13/awareness/#comment-6666</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 01:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good luck with the Big Quit.  The couple of times I have quit - gone on hiatus, really - have been spur of the moment impulse decisions.  Like, &quot;Ugh, I have to get out of the car and go into the store to buy cigarettes?  Eff that.&quot;  So I guess by impulse, I mean laziness.  I think I&#039;m just not ready to give it up yet.  

Plus, it&#039;s still summer, and nice out, and I don&#039;t get frostbite if I step outside to smoke.  Winters are a good inspiration to quit.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good luck with the Big Quit.  The couple of times I have quit &#8211; gone on hiatus, really &#8211; have been spur of the moment impulse decisions.  Like, &#8220;Ugh, I have to get out of the car and go into the store to buy cigarettes?  Eff that.&#8221;  So I guess by impulse, I mean laziness.  I think I&#8217;m just not ready to give it up yet.  </p>
<p>Plus, it&#8217;s still summer, and nice out, and I don&#8217;t get frostbite if I step outside to smoke.  Winters are a good inspiration to quit.</p>
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		<title>By: Liz in Australia</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/08/13/awareness/#comment-6649</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Liz in Australia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Aug 2007 21:50:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good luck! I gave up (intellectually) when I was pregnant with my first, and it took over two years after she was born before I quit completely. It&#039;s a nasty, nasty addiction.

On the positive side, I haven&#039;t had a bout of bronchitis since I did quit. It&#039;s horrible stuff and you have my sympathies.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good luck! I gave up (intellectually) when I was pregnant with my first, and it took over two years after she was born before I quit completely. It&#8217;s a nasty, nasty addiction.</p>
<p>On the positive side, I haven&#8217;t had a bout of bronchitis since I did quit. It&#8217;s horrible stuff and you have my sympathies.</p>
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		<title>By: goldsmith</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/08/13/awareness/#comment-6643</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Aug 2007 19:45:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, I quit smoking 7 years ago, in the summer of 2000, when I realised my insurer would not cover my transgender chest reconstruction surgery.  I knew that smoking could really affect the cosmetic result because of the way it constricts fine blood vessels needed to nurture the scar and drain the wound.  I wanted a fine male chest more than anything and couldn&#039;t bear the idea of 4000 Irish pounds (app. 6500 USD) down the drain simply because I couldn&#039;t stop smoking.

So I made a deal with myself to stop for nine months - six months prior to surgery and three months after.  However, by then the next surgery, a total hysterectomy, had been scheduled, so I felt it made no sense to break the smoking moratorium at that point, and said to myself I would wait until after the hysto.  And guess what? By the time the hysto was over, the addiction had been broken.  Although I still have moments of intense cigarette cravings, which tell me all I need to know about how addictive nicotine is. 

One good tip I picked up for free from Irish public health information, and which is directly linked to body awareness, is to pay attention to how your body clears itself from the tar and nicotine in the first 14 days of quitting - the way your skin and hair don&#039;t stink any longer, and how you can draw ever deeper breaths and feel the freshness of the air, and celebrate that in your mind.  I found that a very powerful re-direction of purpose which helped me over the immediate withdrawal period.  And it works particularly well with yoga and yoga breathing, which like Kate I have been practicing for more than twenty years.

Best of luck with whatever you decide!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I quit smoking 7 years ago, in the summer of 2000, when I realised my insurer would not cover my transgender chest reconstruction surgery.  I knew that smoking could really affect the cosmetic result because of the way it constricts fine blood vessels needed to nurture the scar and drain the wound.  I wanted a fine male chest more than anything and couldn&#8217;t bear the idea of 4000 Irish pounds (app. 6500 USD) down the drain simply because I couldn&#8217;t stop smoking.</p>
<p>So I made a deal with myself to stop for nine months &#8211; six months prior to surgery and three months after.  However, by then the next surgery, a total hysterectomy, had been scheduled, so I felt it made no sense to break the smoking moratorium at that point, and said to myself I would wait until after the hysto.  And guess what? By the time the hysto was over, the addiction had been broken.  Although I still have moments of intense cigarette cravings, which tell me all I need to know about how addictive nicotine is. </p>
<p>One good tip I picked up for free from Irish public health information, and which is directly linked to body awareness, is to pay attention to how your body clears itself from the tar and nicotine in the first 14 days of quitting &#8211; the way your skin and hair don&#8217;t stink any longer, and how you can draw ever deeper breaths and feel the freshness of the air, and celebrate that in your mind.  I found that a very powerful re-direction of purpose which helped me over the immediate withdrawal period.  And it works particularly well with yoga and yoga breathing, which like Kate I have been practicing for more than twenty years.</p>
<p>Best of luck with whatever you decide!</p>
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		<title>By: elasticwaist</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/08/13/awareness/#comment-6640</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Aug 2007 18:44:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I totally identify with this.  If I feel &quot;a little off&quot; I have to call in sick.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I totally identify with this.  If I feel &#8220;a little off&#8221; I have to call in sick.</p>
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