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	<title>Comments on: Let Me Save You The Trouble: I Know I&#8217;m a Fat Cunt, and I&#8217;ve Already Been Raped</title>
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		<title>By: Stuff Heather Thinks is Super Great &#171; Heather and Rachel Have Feelings</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/05/16/let-me-save-you-the-trouble-i-know-im-a-fat-cunt-and-ive-already-been-raped/#comment-110228</link>
		<dc:creator>Stuff Heather Thinks is Super Great &#171; Heather and Rachel Have Feelings</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 18:34:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] delicious madness!  The things I have read in the fat-o-sphere have simultaneously confirmed my worst suspicions about society as a whole and given me the power to tell that part of society, &#8220;Fuck [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] delicious madness!  The things I have read in the fat-o-sphere have simultaneously confirmed my worst suspicions about society as a whole and given me the power to tell that part of society, &#8220;Fuck [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Cheddar</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/05/16/let-me-save-you-the-trouble-i-know-im-a-fat-cunt-and-ive-already-been-raped/#comment-107246</link>
		<dc:creator>Cheddar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 22:15:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As written in &quot;The Age of Sex Crime&quot; by Jane Caputi:

&quot;Margaret Atwood writes that when she asked a male friend why men felt threatened by women, he replied that, &#039;They are afraid women will laugh at them.&#039; When she asked a group of women why women felt threatened by men, they said, &#039;We&#039;re afraid of being killed.&#039;&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As written in &#8220;The Age of Sex Crime&#8221; by Jane Caputi:</p>
<p>&#8220;Margaret Atwood writes that when she asked a male friend why men felt threatened by women, he replied that, &#8216;They are afraid women will laugh at them.&#8217; When she asked a group of women why women felt threatened by men, they said, &#8216;We&#8217;re afraid of being killed.&#8217;&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Alibelle</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/05/16/let-me-save-you-the-trouble-i-know-im-a-fat-cunt-and-ive-already-been-raped/#comment-107159</link>
		<dc:creator>Alibelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 17:53:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just thought I&#039;d take a quick moment to point out the similiarities between these comments and the writings in the blog of the man who shot up the LA fitness gym.

Sadly, his comments seemed more tame and sane than these men&#039;s do. 

But they&#039;re just trolls right? *eye roll*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just thought I&#8217;d take a quick moment to point out the similiarities between these comments and the writings in the blog of the man who shot up the LA fitness gym.</p>
<p>Sadly, his comments seemed more tame and sane than these men&#8217;s do. </p>
<p>But they&#8217;re just trolls right? *eye roll*</p>
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		<title>By: Why happy feminism? &#171; Teaspoon of Sugar</title>
		<link>http://kateharding.net/2007/05/16/let-me-save-you-the-trouble-i-know-im-a-fat-cunt-and-ive-already-been-raped/#comment-107150</link>
		<dc:creator>Why happy feminism? &#171; Teaspoon of Sugar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 16:49:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] veterans of the blogosphere, we know the kind of shit that gets thrown at those who speak out.  It&#8217;s hard to deal with and it takes its toll. We [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] veterans of the blogosphere, we know the kind of shit that gets thrown at those who speak out.  It&#8217;s hard to deal with and it takes its toll. We [...]</p>
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		<title>By: we are the REAL deal</title>
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		<dc:creator>we are the REAL deal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 22:32:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] How chilling is that? If you’re fat, you don’t have the power to choose a romantic partner. I can’t be the only one hearing shades of this shit: [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] How chilling is that? If you’re fat, you don’t have the power to choose a romantic partner. I can’t be the only one hearing shades of this shit: [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Beka</title>
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		<dc:creator>Beka</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 21:45:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First?  What Tammy said.  I recognize the style, and I&#039;ve read her blog for ages and heard her speak, so for those wondering, yeah, that&#039;s definitely Tamora Pierce.  But these words made me sick with their content, but also TERRIFIED.  Because if I heard that while I was walking down the street, I would expect to be dead very shortly after.

Secondly, and a bit belatedly, Kate, I know what you mean about Huey having his heart in the right place and his mouth in the wrong one.  I have a friend, sweet as can be, who sometimes says the most stupid things, and I have to try to convince people who don&#039;t know her that no, really, she&#039;s a sweet girl, and her heart&#039;s in the right place, she&#039;s just... not good at expressing it all the time.

Thirdly, to Melissa... you are a wonderful woman.  Just the fact that you&#039;ve apparently not gone running away from the internet, never again to post an opinion ANYWHERE... I know I&#039;d be in tears.  I would be curled up, sobbing, in tears, and terrified to ever say ANYTHING where someone might disagree with me.  Thank you for being strong.

Sometimes I really really hate humans.  Right now, I&#039;m hating those humans, the ones who said those things, and every other human who&#039;s ever said anything like it.  GRAAAAWR.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First?  What Tammy said.  I recognize the style, and I&#8217;ve read her blog for ages and heard her speak, so for those wondering, yeah, that&#8217;s definitely Tamora Pierce.  But these words made me sick with their content, but also TERRIFIED.  Because if I heard that while I was walking down the street, I would expect to be dead very shortly after.</p>
<p>Secondly, and a bit belatedly, Kate, I know what you mean about Huey having his heart in the right place and his mouth in the wrong one.  I have a friend, sweet as can be, who sometimes says the most stupid things, and I have to try to convince people who don&#8217;t know her that no, really, she&#8217;s a sweet girl, and her heart&#8217;s in the right place, she&#8217;s just&#8230; not good at expressing it all the time.</p>
<p>Thirdly, to Melissa&#8230; you are a wonderful woman.  Just the fact that you&#8217;ve apparently not gone running away from the internet, never again to post an opinion ANYWHERE&#8230; I know I&#8217;d be in tears.  I would be curled up, sobbing, in tears, and terrified to ever say ANYTHING where someone might disagree with me.  Thank you for being strong.</p>
<p>Sometimes I really really hate humans.  Right now, I&#8217;m hating those humans, the ones who said those things, and every other human who&#8217;s ever said anything like it.  GRAAAAWR.</p>
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		<title>By: Lady Lately</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lady Lately</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 21:25:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OMG Tamora Pierce.

Not the horrific prison rape thing, but how &#039;bout someone follows them around and flicks them in the temple every rude and unfactual(?) comment? Not much, but it&#039;s still somewhat satisfying. And potentially useful! They&#039;re discouraged from making the comment, AND they get someone to talk it out with. The treatment continues for a month, and if there&#039;s no change, they get punched and then left alone. Or somesuch. I dunno.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMG Tamora Pierce.</p>
<p>Not the horrific prison rape thing, but how &#8217;bout someone follows them around and flicks them in the temple every rude and unfactual(?) comment? Not much, but it&#8217;s still somewhat satisfying. And potentially useful! They&#8217;re discouraged from making the comment, AND they get someone to talk it out with. The treatment continues for a month, and if there&#8217;s no change, they get punched and then left alone. Or somesuch. I dunno.</p>
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		<title>By: rape&#8217;s double standards and crazy mentalities : Thats My Bix</title>
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		<dc:creator>rape&#8217;s double standards and crazy mentalities : Thats My Bix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2009 14:52:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Teena reported his rape. And everyone knows that the two worst things you can do to a woman is call her fat or threaten to rape her. The paradox is bewildering: It seems to me that this is the flip side of the Catch-22 for rape [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Teena reported his rape. And everyone knows that the two worst things you can do to a woman is call her fat or threaten to rape her. The paradox is bewildering: It seems to me that this is the flip side of the Catch-22 for rape [...]</p>
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		<title>By: asking for it : Thats My Bix</title>
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		<dc:creator>asking for it : Thats My Bix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2008 16:34:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Teena reported his rape. And everyone knows that the two worst things you can do to a woman is call her fat or threaten to rape her. The paradox is bewildering: It seems to me that this is the flip side of the Catch-22 for rape [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Teena reported his rape. And everyone knows that the two worst things you can do to a woman is call her fat or threaten to rape her. The paradox is bewildering: It seems to me that this is the flip side of the Catch-22 for rape [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Annie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Annie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2008 14:26:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks you Lindra, I was feeling some frustration as I read this comment thread just now, since like you said, it&#039;s been over a year.

And I too am a fat cunt who&#039;s already been raped, so the trolls ain&#039;t got nothing on me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks you Lindra, I was feeling some frustration as I read this comment thread just now, since like you said, it&#8217;s been over a year.</p>
<p>And I too am a fat cunt who&#8217;s already been raped, so the trolls ain&#8217;t got nothing on me.</p>
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